Friends for all Reasons
by Ann Winter
from Deepak Chopra:
"Everyone has a
purpose in life...a unique
gift or special
talent to give to others.
And when we blend
this unique talent with
service to others,
we experience the ecstasy
and exultation
of our own spirit, which is
the ultimate goal
of all goals."
Contents
Just for
Awhile
Sweet Viola
Afternoon
Song
Harold
Heavy
the Heart, Sad the Soul
Friendly
Encounters
Thank
you, Station 12
A Father's
Prayer
Friendship
From
Loneliness to Solitude
JUST
FOR AWHILE
Take me away
Just for awhile.
Away from worry
To a restful style.
Let the music
Soothe my nerves.
While incense burns
Into soft white curves.
Release in me
An inner strength.
To face life’s woes
No matter their length.
Let me carry myself
With grace and ease.
Although in my heart
Lie so many pleas.
Sandalwood scent
Water gently flowing.
Harp strings playing
While cares I’m delaying.
Take me away
Just for a time.
To refresh my soul
During this life of mine.
SWEET
VIOLA
Oh, those eyes!
Bright blue and twinkling.
Daring the devil to cross
her path.
A study in quick wit, yet
A soothing mother’s tongue.
A ready smile and a chipper
laugh
For all who knew and loved
her.
Vi was a great source of joy
in my life.
I so admired her no-nonsense
approach to life.
Yet her gentle manner in lifting
my spirits
Provided me with much solace.
Vi was so many things my own
mother couldn’t be.
But she helped me to see that
my mother
Was all that she could be.
She always encouraged me to
be myself.
To be true to that self, to
love that self.
She pushed me to stand up
for myself
Not to be walked upon by anyone.
Even though Vi is gone from
our midst
She still walks beside me
daily
As my guardian angel.
When I visit her resting place
I feel her strong spirit cheering
me on
To complete my life work,
with no fear
Of self-imposed guilt or shame.
In happiness and sadness
I can allow my tears to fall
freely
In her spiritual presence.
I am reassured that she will
always be there
To call upon for strength
and love.
Until we meet again,
Sweet Viola, I miss you so.
- Dedicated to the
memory of my dear friend Viola Dulen
AFTERNOON
SONG
A subtle breeze
Touches the long silver tubes.
Awakening each chime
In joyful harmony.
All who hear
Are treated to the mystically
soothing tones.
All who see
Are witness to the tiny light
flashes
Reflected as the sun warms
the slender tubes.
The song swells and ebbs
As breezes come and go.
Leaving the air filled
With hymns of peace.
HAROLD
Perched on the wire, eyes alert.
Watching the kitchen window
Waiting for a face to appear.
There she is! She sees me!
She turns and heads for the
back door.
I can hardly wait!
The back door opens and out
she comes.
Always a smile and a "Hello
Harold"
She thinks I’m beautiful and
smart.
I love her for that
And for what she holds in
her hand.
My treasured peanut!
HEAVY
THE HEART, SAD THE SOUL
Heavy the heart that cares
not for others
Sad the soul that reflects
no ones love.
Heavy the heart that lets
in no light
Sad the soul that does not
shine.
Heavy the heart that lets
no one near
Sad the soul that endures
alone.
Heavy the heart that lacks
humor
Sad the soul that laughs alone.
Heavy the heart that fears
life
Sad the soul that lives without
joy.
Heavy the heart that sees
not the rise and set of the sun
Sad the soul that suffers
endless days.
Heavy the heart that cannot
love nature
Sad the soul that cannot enjoy
God’s creations.
Heavy the heart that dies
in solitude
Sad the soul that is missed
by no other.
Heavy the heart that doesn’t
know God
Sad the soul that knows not
yet bliss.
FRIENDLY
ENCOUNTERS
Among those things I call "a
friend"
Are natures’ gifts, on which
I depend.
A wagging tail
A slow-paced snail.
A cat’s meow
A lowing cow.
A whooping crane
A horse’s mane.
A butterfly wing
A fairy ring.
A raven’s caw
A fuzzy black paw.
All these things and so much
more,
Gain friends, gain love,
Get out, explore.
THANK
YOU, STATION 12
When emergencies arise
There is no consideration
of day and time,
Of person or place.
Fate takes a front row seat
And halts all else.
Fear replaces calm,
As time stands still.
Feeling helpless and fragile,
Our need is urgent.
But YOU are there.
We look up into eyes
We must trust with our lives.
A smile to ease the terror
within.
Comforting words, reassuring
touches
We must believe in.
A hand to hold
Is an anchor to reality
In an unreal situation.
Every day your gift is given
To those of us in need.
It is given out of love, duty,
and concern.
It is accepted with our deepest
thanks
And our greatest admiration.
May God keep each of you
And your loved ones
Always in His special care.
A
FATHER’S PRAYER
Tears fall softly on auburn
curls
Encircling a tiny head.
Sweet moisture nourishing
a tiny face.
Rose pink lips part in expectation
Eyes lift, twinkling with
trust.
Lord, help me love and protect
This priceless gift You have
entrusted to me.
Guide me along my path in
life
So that I might show her the
way.
Help me to instill the love
of giving
The courage to hope in the
face of doubt
And always to trust in Your
answers.
FRIENDSHIP
This is for you my friend
You, who are always there
for me.
Beside me when I’m up
Pushing me up when I’m down.
Praising my talents
Strengthening my faults
Listening to me, in silence
Letting me grieve as long
as I need.
Teaching me to be all that
I can
Letting me fall, but giving
me the courage
To pick myself up
And give it another try.
Our thoughts often cross
Before our paths cross.
We are aware of the presence
of each other
On an earthly level and beyond.
As years go by and our senses
dim,
It is then that we shall truly
"see"
The depth and strength of
our friendship.
As our hearts beat more slowly
Our souls begin to shine more
brightly
Heading toward the path
To eternal friendship and
love.
Thank you for sharing this
journey
With me, my friend.
You have helped make the path
easier to walk.
And your love and support
have made my life whole.
- To my dear friend
Adela (Lolly) Contreras-O’Donnell
FROM
LONELINESS TO SOLITUDE
We enter the world alone.
We leave the world alone.
We stand before God alone.
Aloneness is a universal human
experience.
There is great value in standing
alone.
Being aware of aloneness
And not loneliness, (which
is negative)
Is a state not many of us
achieve.
We fear being alone with ourselves.
We try to fill that void (avoid
the void)
With distractions, people,
noise, etc.
We fear the quiet path leading
to our inner selves,
And the dark side of our hearts.
But, it is in such solitude
that we discover
Our inner riches and strengths,
And discover too, the real
person God has created.
In solitude we can find our
true connection to God.
The desert is an image of
solitude.
Many go there to seek peace
and joy.
Our hearts are receptacles
during these peaceful times
And nature can provide the
space to be present with ourselves.
Other settings for the introduction
of solitude
Are sunrises, sunsets, oceans,
rainbows, etc.
As the flower blooms in the
silent desert,
So may our hearts bloom in
peaceful solitude.
Friends
for all Reasons © 1999 Ann Winter
Santa Barbara, California
USA
Photo credit Ann Winter; Santa Barbara Summer Solstice, Santa Barbara, California
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